Problems in long distance relationship

Coping with long distance relationship for long period of time is difficult. Common problems in long distance relationship:-

1. Easier to avoid discussion on a relationship related problem.

It's bad for the couple as there will be an accumulation of unresolved issues, waiting to erupt like the great volcano when the time comes. And nobody can survive this kind of fatal eruption. NOBODY.

2. Cold war can last longer.

Long distance means you may run away from somebody you don't like (even if that somebody is your partner) and you do not have to deal with him/her directly for as long as you want it to be.

3. There's a drastic change of routine.

Normal : Watching movies, cooking & eating meals together, gazing at the stars in the night sky etc.

Long distance : Chatting on the phone and online (ie. MSN, Yahoo, Facebook, IDD calls)

4. 'Other-couples-are-out-dating, why-can't-we?' syndrome.

In times, couples in long distance relationship find themselves constantly asking whether they are in a real relationship. They start comparing their relationship with other loving couples they meet.

5. Easier to cheat.

There's only a fine line between staying faithful and breaching the trust of your partner.If you're not careful, you might fall into the latter.

Surviving a long distance is only manageable if both parties are mentally prepared for it. Identify all the issues before they pop up, discuss how you want to keep the phone conversation interesting, meet at every chance possible. It's not impossible to keep a strong long distance relationship. *Speaking from experience*

Love Jo.